I have never in my life seen anything as elegant as the way in which Marlo’s grandmother wrote her advice to the newlyweds at the guestbook table. There were three or four words, then a pause, at once for thought and to let the ink dry, then a few more words, another pause. This was at the heart of Palo Alto’s beautiful Twelve Oaks estate, at an outdoor Jewish wedding that the wonderful people over at Dream A Little Dream Events helped design. Brad Zweerink, my second photographer for the day, was awesome and helped me with other angles, especially during the first look, which was attended by family on the balcony overlooking the Twelve Oaks front garden.